feat(iios): idempotency-command ledger + IdempotencyService (P9)

Adds the doc-mandated IiosIdempotencyCommand table + a reusable
IdempotencyService.run() that writes IN_FLIGHT at command start, replays the
cached response on a same-key/same-body retry, rejects a same-key/different-body
reuse (409), and retries a FAILED command. Tenant-scoped via
@@unique([scopeId, commandName, idempotencyKey]) (KG-02/KG-06).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

packages/iios-service/src/test-utils/reset-db.ts

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ import type { PrismaClient } from '@prisma/client';
 export async function resetDb(prisma: PrismaClient): Promise<void> {
   await prisma.$executeRawUnsafe(
     `TRUNCATE TABLE
-      "IiosDlqItem","IiosAuditLink",
+      "IiosIdempotencyCommand","IiosDlqItem","IiosAuditLink",
       "IiosMeetingActionItem","IiosActionItem","IiosTranscriptSegment","IiosMeetingTranscript","IiosMeetingSummary","IiosMeetingParticipant","IiosMeeting","IiosMeetingRequest",
       "IiosCalendarSyncCursor","IiosCalendarEvent","IiosCalendarProviderAccount","IiosAvailabilityWindow",
       "IiosAiEvidenceLink","IiosAiClaim","IiosAiToolCall","IiosAiArtifact","IiosAiModelRun","IiosAiJob","IiosEmbeddingRef",